Partnering is all about connection —and that begins with how you hold your partner. Think of your hand not as a glove with distinct fingers, but as a mitten, providing a smooth, secure, and consistent grip. When holding a dancer’s waist, the “mitten” mindset offers better control and avoids any jarring movements. Next time you’re in class, practice switching between glove and mitten hand positions. Notice how the mitten creates a softer, more supportive hold that allows the lady to feel secure a